What A Month! – An Epic Adoption Story
Most of you know by now that we have made it back home.
What a homecoming!!!
Family, friends, signs, balloons, TV cameras, and newspaper photographers.
While we were there we made the Georgetown News Graphic, and since our return we were on the front page.
The day after our return we celebrated Dad’s birthday, and distributed souvenirs amongst family.
Less than a week after coming home, and a month to the day of The Call two of our Ugandan kids, Lucas and Kamri, have already begun school.
In four weeks we became a family of eight…the Suburban is full.
What a Month?!
FYI…I have added links to the Adoption posts so you can navigate a little easier. The story began here.
The Phone Call – An Epic Adoption Story
Fast forward three and a half years to January 28th at 4:30 am.
So, our journey to adoption has taken yet another incredible neck breaking turn. At 4:30 am Eastern, which is 12:30 pm in Uganda, on Thursday, January 27, 2011 we get a call requesting our availability for a Monday, January 31, 2011 meeting with our lawyer…in UGANDA!!!
I had only recently hit the wall emotionally as the judge we had been assigned was refusing to schedule cases because the person whom he was replacing had not moved out of her office. Our judge was also the new head of the Family Court, and there is a significant amount of pride as men rise to his level of power in Uganda. Seldom does one find a humble man, but when one has authority in Uganda they tend to use it to every advantage even if the only advantage is making sure that you know they are in control.
Not only did he only give us five days notice of our hearing, but after delivering his ruling he took 9 days to sign the typed copies. We were told it would be ready Monday, but the judge was out all day for a burial. Then we were told to come back Tuesday and our lawyer waited for him to arrive to sign until 4:00pm. She was told that he was having his lunch, and then once she was given the opportunity to see him at 4:30pm he told her it was too late and to come back Wednesday morning. Agnes arrived at his office at 9:30 am on Wednesday morning and well that story can be read here.
A lot happened in that 3 1/2 years. Family members have died. Friendships have come and gone. Sources of income have changed. I have gotten two more degrees. Our children are 3 1/2 years older. We went from adopting one to three. We’ve even changed vehicles twice.
While I still wish Mom and Grandpa Barney were here to experience this with us and I still wish we would have completed this journey a year or two ago, but I can see God weaving together everything for a purpose. I don’t think we would have gone and been home in 2 weeks and 6 days if it were not for the timing of this episode. Egypt in disarray, Algeria not far behind a regime change, people protesting in Bahrain and Libya, and an election in Uganda involving a president who has been in office for 25 years all came together to maybe make our trip one of the fastest in the history of Ugandan adoptions. The length of our stay was a prayer concern, and God intervened. If we had known all of that was going to happen we might have been able to predict The Phone Call, but what fun would that have been?
The Surprise – An Epic Adoption Story
When I arrived home from my month-long excursion to Uganda in 2007 I was showered with love and gifts by my children. The first thing I opened was a card…
